Failure · Family

Bad People

I have come to the realization  that most people assume that a person leaves a marriage/relationship because they've found someone else or been cheated upon by their partner.  That assumption has been one of my larger struggles  with my divorce.  No.  Neither of us cheated.  Neither of us found someone else.  We just... weren't working.… Continue reading Bad People

Failure · Family

Strength in Leaving

As promised, a handy-dandy quote of encouragement for the leaver.  I'll leave it here somehwere so you can copy and share.  I'd ask that you leave the tag, obviously. ANYway. Today, I am doing better.  Sometimes I have to talk things out with people who know me, who knew us as a couple, and I… Continue reading Strength in Leaving

Failure

Being the Leaver

You know what I've noticed?  There are a lot of self-help quotes for people who have been left.  There are a lot of supportive words for people who didn't want the divorce, but were forced to do it anyway.  There are a lot of resources and means of coping passed around circles of friends and… Continue reading Being the Leaver